If he’s stood you up a few times, its few times too many. Its time to consider that he might be lying to you, and he;s not really committed to your relationship.
Today, relationships have become less about love, and more about, well, everything else. Everyone goes into a relationship seeking happiness, but you’ll be surprised by how different some people’s definitions of happiness are. For example, while you define happiness as “love” she might define it as “your credit card”, or he might define it as “sex”. The bottom line is that different people have different reasons for getting into a relationship, I’m going to help you identify the liars. You know, the creeps who senselessly say “I Love you“, hoping to get something else in return.
Here’s how!
Tip 1: Inconsistencies
When you want to know if someone is lying, look for inconsistencies in what they are saying. Are their stories logical? Do they keep on changing their story?
Tip 2: Ask the unexpected
If your partner is used to lying to you, he’s probably already worked out all the questions you’re likely to ask. Ask them something they couldn’t have prepared for. This may be a bit hard if your partner knows you really well. Another way, is to just ask a lot of questions – almost try to confuse them. This will bring out the inconsistencies in their story and you’ll be able to catch them out!
Tip 3: Pay attention to behavior
When someone is being questioned about a lie, their behaviour will visibly change. They may look flustered, nervous, sweaty, awkward or panicked. Quick responses may also be a sign of a lie. Remember, any change in behaviour can give it away, even if they’re acting more relaxed than usual! Also, pay attention to eye contact. Most liars can’t make direct contact while trying to justify themselves.
So before getting too serious with your partner, make sure you both have the same vision for your relationship. Liars are very inconsiderate people, and they’re everywhere! Make sure you’re not with the wrong person.
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