Ever so often I see unusually mismatched couples – slim, curvy, beautiful women with short, fat, balding men. As far as I know, there is no shortage of good-looking men, nor is there an overly high supply of gorgeous women to go around for everyone. So why is it that beautiful women date such ugly men?
It must be the cash, and judging by her looks (and his), he must have a lot of it. This is probably the first thought that goes through most good-looking men’s minds, but this assumption cannot be further from the truth. Although having financial stability does help a man find a beautiful woman, it is not the most important aspect. So if ugly men don’t need cash to bait beautiful women, what is their secret?
Well, just like a blind man learns to develop and exploit his other senses, an ugly man relies less on his looks, and learns to heighten his other traits. Over the years, ugly men have developed two different strategies to land himself a beautiful women. The first strategy is called Scouting for Beauty, which involves looking for undiscovered, up-and-coming beautiful women. The second strategy is called Impressing the Beauty, which involves impressing a beautiful single women who is sick of all the mind games played by good-looking men.
Scouting for Beauty
The mistake that most men make is to assume that every beautiful woman is born beautiful. Generally, men have their radars fine-tuned for beautiful women dressed in sexy clothing, ignoring every other woman around them. Good looking men assume that in order to date a beautiful woman, you have to look for a beautiful woman. This is where ugly men outwit the good-looking men. While good-looking men are checking out the hot model type women, who are already dating and usually spoiled with attention, the ugly men are scouting for the potential superstars. The ugly men learn to spot potential beauty within a regular looking woman before good-looking men do. These potential superstars are usually regular looking women who don’t know they have the potential to be hot. They have a low self-esteem, lack of personal style and lack of sex appeal.
Regular looking women do not receive their desired attention from the good-looking men, therefore they have a low self-esteem and no reason to fix themselves up – until the ugly man comes along, compliments her and makes her feel good about herself. Eventually the regular looking woman develops a liking for the ugly man and she begins to dress to impress and fix herself in a stylish manner. By the time the ugly man is done, he has produced a sophisticated, well dressed woman with sex appeal escaping from her every pore! The good-looking men are left wondering “How could I have missed her!?“.
Scouting is good, but not good enough. Ugly men know that they have to work hard to keep his new-found star as she can easily be swooped away by a smooth good-looking man. The problem is that once the regular looking woman realises that she is hot and that every man in the room is looking at her, she will start to wonder if maybe she can actually get a good-looking man. Now that she is new and improved, why not test the waters?
Ugly men have learnt to prepare for such, offering her everything she desires in a man – minus the good looks. He becomes a smooth talker – speaking with confidence, saying the right words to make her melt and offering interesting and intelligent conversation. He becomes fun and spontaneous – women love to keep company of men who can make them laugh and bring excitement to their lives. Too many good-looking men rely so heavily on their good looks alone to impress women that they forget to make the date exciting. Ugly men use this to their advantage – planning fun dates in advance such as weekend getaways, dinners at exotic restaurants, canoeing, hiking, cycling, or dance lessons. He becomes a real man – someone who can romance her and make her feel special, not only for her body but for her mind and soul as well. Good lovers are hard to find, and if he’s a virgin (being ugly didn’t get him that much), it’s all the better. He becomes a mature man – realising that life is not all fun and games. A women likes to know that she can count on her man to provide her with spiritual and financial stability.
Impressing the Beauty
Ugly men do not always look for an undiscovered woman. Sometimes ugly men simply approach and land gorgeous women – how do they do it? They don’t assume anything about beautiful women. Believe it or not, beautiful women have a hard time meeting men. Most men are intimidated be their looks and think that since she looks good, she must be high maintenance, hard to get or already dating. The few men that do approach her are players who like to play mind games and just want to claim her as a trophy. All she wants is an honest, trustworthy, fun man who can bring stability to her life.
Ugly men realise that in most cases, beautiful women are single, fed up of players, and are craving a real man to approach her and desire her for who they are and not solely for her looks and body. Ugly men must always be one step ahead of the game; they have nothing to lose and everything to gain.
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