The Ugly Secret

Ever so often I see unusually mismatched couples – slim, curvy, beautiful women with short, fat, balding men. As far as I know, there is no shortage of good-looking men, nor is there an overly high supply of gorgeous women to go around for everyone. So why is it that beautiful women date such ugly men?

It must be the cash, and judging by her looks (and his), he must have a lot of it. This is probably the first thought that goes through most good-looking men’s minds, but this assumption cannot be further from the truth. Although having financial stability does help a man find a beautiful woman, it is not the most important aspect. So if ugly men don’t need cash to bait beautiful women, what is their secret?

Well, just like a blind man learns to develop and exploit his other senses, an ugly man relies less on his looks, and learns to heighten his other traits. Over the years, ugly men have developed two different strategies to land himself a beautiful women. The first strategy is called Scouting for Beauty, which involves looking for undiscovered, up-and-coming beautiful women. The second strategy is called Impressing the Beauty, which involves impressing a beautiful single women who is sick of all the mind games played by good-looking men.

Scouting for Beauty

The mistake that most men make is to assume that every beautiful woman is born beautiful. Generally, men have their radars fine-tuned for beautiful women dressed in sexy clothing, ignoring every other woman around them. Good looking men assume that in order to date a beautiful woman, you have to look for a beautiful woman. This is where ugly men outwit the good-looking men. While good-looking men are checking out the hot model type women, who are already dating and usually spoiled with attention, the ugly men are scouting for the potential superstars. The ugly men learn to spot potential beauty within a regular looking woman before good-looking men do. These potential superstars are usually regular looking women who don’t know they have the potential to be hot. They have a low self-esteem, lack of personal style and lack of sex appeal.

Regular looking women do not receive their desired attention from the good-looking men, therefore they have a low self-esteem and no reason to fix themselves up – until the ugly man comes along, compliments her and makes her feel good about herself. Eventually the regular looking woman develops a liking for the ugly man and she begins to dress to impress and fix herself in a stylish manner. By the time the ugly man is done, he has produced a sophisticated, well dressed woman with sex appeal escaping from her every pore! The good-looking men are left wondering “How could I have missed her!?“.

Scouting is good, but not good enough. Ugly men know that they have to work hard to keep his new-found star as she can easily be swooped away by a smooth good-looking man. The problem is that once the regular looking woman realises that she is hot and that every man in the room is looking at her, she will start to wonder if maybe she can actually get a good-looking man. Now that she is new and improved, why not test the waters?

Ugly men have learnt to prepare for such, offering her everything she desires in a man – minus the good looks. He becomes a smooth talker – speaking with confidence, saying the right words to make her melt and offering interesting and intelligent conversation. He becomes fun and spontaneous – women love to keep company of men who can make them laugh and bring excitement to their lives. Too many good-looking men rely so heavily on their good looks alone to impress women that they forget to make the date exciting. Ugly men use this to their advantage – planning fun dates in advance such as weekend getaways, dinners at exotic restaurants, canoeing, hiking, cycling, or dance lessons. He becomes a real man – someone who can romance her and make her feel special, not only for her body but for her mind and soul as well. Good lovers are hard to find, and if he’s a virgin (being ugly didn’t get him that much),  it’s all the better. He becomes a mature man – realising that life is not all fun and games. A women likes to know that she can count on her man to provide her with spiritual and financial stability.

Impressing the Beauty

Ugly men do not always look for an undiscovered woman. Sometimes ugly men simply approach and land gorgeous women – how do they do it? They don’t assume anything about beautiful women. Believe it or not, beautiful women have a hard time meeting men. Most men are intimidated be their looks and think that since she looks good, she must be high maintenance, hard to get or already dating. The few men that do approach her are players who like to play mind games and just want to claim her as a trophy. All she wants is an honest, trustworthy, fun man who can bring stability to her life.

Ugly men realise that in most cases, beautiful women are single, fed up of players, and are craving a real man to approach her and desire her for who they are and not solely for her looks and body. Ugly men must always be one step ahead of the game; they have nothing to lose and everything to gain.

 

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The Weight Watchers Diet – The Healthy Way to Lose Weight!

Have you been struggling to lose weight? Aimlessly trying to get your summer body back? GezzyGirl has a new diet that will fit any lifestyle – everyone has to give this one a try! The Weight Watchers Diet helps you lose 1kg (2lbs) a week, while you eat whatever you want! Sounds too good to be true? Here’s how it works!

The Weight Watchers Diet is based on the theory that counting calories is not the only aspect of dieting, but rather making healthy choices that fill you up, and therefore eating less.The Weight Watchers Diet Points Plus assigns every food a points value based on protein, carbs, fat, fibre, calories, and how hard the body has to work to burn it off. In order to lose weight you need to keep your point count down. Choices that fill you up and nutritionally dense foods “cost” fewer points than empty calories. For example, if you’re contemplating between a 200cal smoothie and a 200cal iced coffee, you would choose the smoothie even though they have the same calorie count! Bare in mind that processed foods will carry high points, while fresh fruits and vegetables carry zero points! You can eat as much as you want of these because they are high in fibre and more filling than something highly processed, like a chocolate!

There is no fixed membership period for this diet. Because it’s a healthy way to lose the unwanted fat, you can stay on it for as long as you wish. The great thing about this diet is that you can eat whatever you want, as long as you stick to your daily Points Plus Target. You can find your target by going onto the Weight Watchers website. Here, you will also find the point values of over 40 000 foods! Weight Watchers also pushes specially designated power foods, or the best choice among similar foods. For example, if you’re stuck between 2 soups, you can quickly check which one has the healthier content.

So why should you follow this diet? Well first and foremost, the Weight Watchers Diet helps you lose weight. Studies suggest that Weight Watchers is affective when followed correctly, with 86% of followers being happily satisfied with the results. Following this diet proves to improve cardiac health through weight loss. Although eating this way does not directly better diabetes, it helps you lose weight and intern helps diabetes patients.

Weight Watchers recommends that you take a daily multivitamin to ensure that you’re getting enough calcium, zinc, magnesium, iron, vitamin B-12, and other important nutrients. This diet is easy to follow as you won’t go hungry throughout the day – the points per day are high enough to allow 3 meals and at least 2 snacks! Treating yourself is recommended!!! Just stick to your allocated points and you’ll be on your way to your dream body!

 

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My Love, My Life…

I thought he was perfect. He had everything I could ever want in a man. He was extremely sweet, extremely caring, and so very loving. He catered to my every need and he took care of me. He was always trying his best to keep me happy, and when I was upset, he would hold my face in his hands ever so gently, kiss me on my forehead and remind me that he loves me, “Therefore everything will be ok” he would say. He was 7 years older than me, and I loved his maturity. I vaguely remember the long drives we would take together, I loved them. We would blast the music in his car and scream to each other the whole conversation and the whole way home. He would take me for drives when I was angry, just to calm me down. He kindly understood that our time together would always be limited as he stayed far from my home (1 hours drive away) and my parents didn’t know about him. We always had fun together, we were always with friends, always at parties, seeing each other at our best (before the party), and at our worst (after the party). It was exactly my idea of a perfect relationship.

We had our ups and we had our downs, as couples do. And with time, we had more and more downs, each down getting lower and lower. We wouldn’t speak to each other for weeks on end, not even a simple “Hey, how are you”, and not once did I think to myself “I miss him”. It became clear to me that this was not the man that I would be spending the rest of my life with – how could I – I didn’t even miss him after not hearing from him for a whole two weeks. Surely if you do not miss them, they can’t mean much to you? You wouldn’t feel the need to call them “My Life”.

What does it mean when you tell someone that they’re Your Life? It means you Love them. You’re In Love with them. You Need them. You live for them – for their Happiness – and you cannot live without them. They mean everything to you – they are Your Everything. They’ve earned a special place in your heart that cannot and will not be replaced, no matter what. There is no difference between death and being without them. You Love them.

Yes, calling someone “My Life” is serious. You wouldn’t dare call just anyone “My Life”. You can call them “My Love”, “My Baby”, you can tell them you Love them, but nothing means more than calling them “My Life”. So although I thought I loved him, I knew that he was not “My Life”. As much as I loved him and as happy as I was, I never once thought of him as “My Life”. He felt the same way – he never called me his life either. Even he knew that this special title is meant to be unique, and he too was saving it for someone who well deserved it, for someone who he truly Loved and lived for.

As time went by, things between us were only getting worse, and before I realised it, it was over. I didn’t miss him after the break up either, for a simple reason – he was not “My Life”. I tried many relationships after him, all which seemed to never measure up to what I had experienced before. None of them lasted as long either, 7 months being the longest. It wasn’t until March last year that I finally found someone worth keeping.

We met at a varsity party and spent that night together. It was amazing. Between all the alcohol and the random make out sessions with him on the dance floor, in his friend’s car, and behind a lecture hall, I fall In Love. I knew that night that I Loved him and Needed him. Apparently he knew too – he said to me “If I remember all this tomorrow, you owe me a date next friday”. He wanted me in his life as much as I wanted him in mine.

Well you can guess that it wasn’t long after that, that we started dating, He was mine and I was his. And with every day together, I could see more and more of what an amazing person he is. He Loves me, he cares for me. He’s the sweetest man I’ve ever met, he’s romantic, he’s cute, funny, corny. I Need him and he makes me Happy. He has the most Amazing eyes, that change colour with his mood, with the weather, and with what he wears. His lips, so perfect, slighty pink and always so juicy, so kissable. And when he smiles, you can tell he really is happy, because he doesn’t just smile with his lips, but with his eyes, his cheeks, his nose – and it makes me smile. His skin is so soft, so specifically coloured that it’s impossible to explain with words (much like his eyes). His body, so strong, so smooth, so sexy. His touch is so gentle, so careful, always so thought out, and I can feel his Love for me with every touch. His ambition, his competitiveness, his temper, his childishness and his seriousness, are yet but a small part of what makes him perfect to me. He is so much more than everything I want in a guy, he’s everything I Need in a man. He treats me well, he listens to me, he helps me, supports me, encourages me, motivates me. He understands me.

He is My Life. I Love him, I’m In Love with him, I Need him. I live for him – for his Happiness – and I cannot live without him. My Happiness depends on him. He means Everything to me, he is My Everything. He has earned a special place in my heart that cannot and will not be replaced, no matter what. For me, there is no difference between death and being without him. I Love him.