“97% of men watch porn, the other 3% is lying”
Ever so often, men in healthy relationships enjoy watching porn, and even more often the women in their lives have a problem with it – after all, how healthy can your relationship really be if he enjoys watching other people having sex, right?
So why do men enjoy watching or reading about other people having sex?
Reason #1: He’s bord – Porn is their idea of entertainment. No, they won’t choose a normal activity like shop, eat, nap, exercise, etc, they rather watch porn.
Reason #2: He’s lazy – Porn is like fast food, he doesn’t even need to get off the couch. Why waste time and effort on sexting his girlfriend, calling her over or asking for a sexy picture? Porn is readily available and easily accessible. And of course sex is messy and all the thrusting can be tiring, he’d rather forfeit the real deal…
Reason #3: Guys like the crazy, wild stuff, that is, it’s a major turn on – Let’s be honest, not all of us have the flat tummy, toned thighs, perfect curves, big ass, D-cup boobs he sees in every porn video out there (and even if you do, it’s not enough). A girl like that could turn a perfectly straight lady on. Porn fulfills his favourite fantasies – the wild, weird positioned sex he’s dying to have, those girls have tried it all, and watching them do it allows him to imagine him doing it. Yes, that’s right, in case he’s being lying to you – he has imagined having sex with millions of girls by now. And no, he doesn’t see our problem with it.
Of course these are not the only reasons, all guys have different motivations.
So is him watching porn a problem? Well he certainly doesn’t think so. Watching porn is not a reflection of your love/sex life. It doesn’t mean that he’s bored with you or unhappy with you, and he is most definitely not replacing you with porn. Maybe take it as a bit of a hint though – spice things up in the bedroom, and maybe, just maybe, he’ll enjoy watching you more than porn.
Keep in mind that guys are naturally aroused by the sight or simple thought of sex. No, it does not mean that he’s a sex addict, it simply means that he enjoys it (and trust me, all men do). If it doesn’t interfere with their daily lives or your relationship, then let him be. After all, how much can it really affect you that your man is jerking off to another woman’s body, imagining that it was him f***ing her.
GezzyGirl 