10 Things Happy Couples Do Differently

All relationships hit a bit of a slump every now and again, some more than others. Eventually days repeat themselves, and you find yourself losing your better half. So here’s the top 10 things that will help every relationship prevent this from happening!

1. Embrace Trust and Avoid Jealousy – I know, it’s a lot easier said than done. But think about it this way. It is unavoidable that your partner will have friends, colleagues, classmates, and people they see in their day-to-day lives that are of the opposite sex. Some of these people may be really great and really good looking. But here’s where the trust comes in. Your partner chose you, if they wanted any of those people they see everyday, they would very easily leave you. Jealousy is only a sign of insecurity, which is an extremely unattractive quality. Jealousy will not get you anywhere in a relationship – it only leads to trust issues, which could lead to a break up. Jealousy and lack of trust will drive your partner away. Learn to trust your partner, and show them that you trust them. Have a little more faith in yourself – you are the one they have chosen and you are the one they want.

2. Take an Interest in Each Others Day – Its too easy to come home and rant on about how much you hate your boss or how idiotic some people in your office are. Instead, come home and start by asking your partner how their day was. A gentle kiss and a loving hug will let them know you really care. Don’t forget to pay attention to the details, ask questions to show that you are actually interested.

3. Learn to Compromise – No, unfortunately you can’t always have it your way. If he watched The Notebook with you last night, why not watch the game with him tonight? Show them how much you enjoy spending time with them, even if its not your favourite activity – any time together is quality time.

4. Find Common Hobbies and Likes – It’s always easier in the early stages of a relationship, but once that thrill of a new relationship wares off, you need to be able t do things together that you both enjoy. Shared interests are a great back bone to a long lasting relationship

5. Make Time for Each Other – All relationships need time together. I’m not talking about watching a movie together or sitting on your computer together, you need time to talk to each other. Set a side a couple of days a week to have a quite dinner alone and just reflect and chat.

6. Give Each Other Space – When you’re in a relationship, you shouldn’t feel like you’re trapped or being held down. Give each other space and freedom. Let him go camping with the guys or let her go shopping with her girlfriends. You won’t die if you aren’t with them all the time. Everyone needs that “me” time.

7. Do New Things Together – Do not fall into the same routine of doing the same old things over and over. One of you will end up getting bored and looking elsewhere for something more interesting. Experiencing new things together brings you closer together and keeps the excitement going in the relationship.

8. Flirt A Little – No, don’t get too excited – I don’t mean flirt with other people, trust me, Happy Couples do not do that! Flirt with each other, do not let the spark die. Use a few cheesy pick up lines, tell them how hot they look in the mornings before work, and maybe initiate some sexting. Its a great way to keep your partner interested and happy.

9. Express Your Love – Exchange gifts, take them to surprise dinners, write them love notes, whatever you do, just show them that your love them. Don’t forget to simply say “I Love You” whenever you get the chance – short, sweet, and ever so important!

10. Don’t Hold Grudges – Everyone makes mistakes, and if they hurt you, they regret it more than you think. They don’t need you to constantly remind them of something they’ve done wrong – are you trying to drive them away? Learn to talk out your problems with each other and move on from arguments once they are over.

These top 10 things are key to a happy relationship! You’re welcome.

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The Secrets Men Keep..

Here’s a few of the many secrets you didn’t know about men…

Number #1:

“We like to cuddle” – Men enjoy cuddling just as much as women do! “It’s relaxing and helps relieve stress. It makes us feel secure about our relationship and a lot closer all together”.

Number #2:

“Confidence is key in the bedroom” – Men are taught that confidence can solve just about anything! Talking rubbish? Speak with confidence and they’ll believe you! Missed a step? Fall with confidence and they’ll think its part of your walk! The same concept works in the bedroom, You may have no idea what you’re doing (trust me, most of us don’t) but throw a little confidence in there, and they’ll be begging on their knees!

Number #3:

“Getting too tipsy on a date is a total turnoff” – Some people turn into a completely different person when they’re drunk. Let your potential partner get to know you while you’re sober, and if you’re a lover of alcohol like GezzyGirl, let it work itself into the date as it goes. For instance, wine adds romance to a quiet dinner, while having a shot or two of tequila can spice things up and add some excitement to an evening out together. Its your pick!

Number #4:

“Heavy make up – another major turnoff!” – When a girl does her make up well, the results can be magical. But girls shouldn’t rely on make up to look and feel good. Men like girls who are comfortable in their own skin. “They need to be confident with what their body has to offer, naturally”. There’s nothing wrong with make up, when using it to highlight and emphasise your features, its excessive make up that’s the problem. “Too much, too many colours – we can’t even find your face in there!”

Ladies, we all love what make up can do for us, but remember: with time, make up only ruins our faces, ’till we have nothing to offer, naturally. You’ll know its a bit too much when he can’t recognise you when you go for the natural look!

Number #5:

“You put too much pressure on yourselves to get married” – Let’s be honest, it’s true! But with good reason. Women say they feel more pressure to settle down because they can’t have children as easily past a certain age. Also, appearance, and therefore confidence, fades away with age, and no one wants to be stuck alone forever. But this is a problem that affects men as well. “I fear that my appearance and “game” will fade as I get older. Although it is fun to be one of the few in my group who hasn’t yet found love, I’m starting to wonder if time is running out”.

Number #6:

“We want to bail the morning after a one night stand” – “A little too much to drink the night before and we find ourselves in your bed the morning after. I think, no, I know I speak for all men when I say, we are not looking for a relationship after having a one night stand with you. Give each other a hug, wish each other well, don’t say anything about calling, and don’t, I mean DO NOT believe him when he mutters that he will call you”.

Number #7:

“You will NEVER understand our sports obsession” – I know a lot of women like sports, but are they as obsessed with sports as men are? “We appreciate you’re efforts of trying to get involved with our love for sport, but honestly, all we’re thinking is “you’ll never really understand our sports obsession”. And ladies, its ok! We have enough guys to talk about the game with. Just make me a sandwich and bring me a beer!”

Number #8:

“You’re not the only one who engages in retail-therapy post-break up” – Guys too love shopping during emotional lows. “Wearing new clothes makes me feel confident”. Men say they’ve been spending a lot of cash on their ex in the past; now its time to spend some money on themselves!

Number #9:

“Sex in the shower is over rated” – “The shower is a danger zone! That “up against the wall” position is a lot tougher than it sounds. Everything is super slippery, plus there’s soap everywhere. The shower is the one, and probable the only place we don’t have to do it in”.

And last, but most definitely not least…

Number #10:

“We do, sometimes, actually think you’re crazy” – “Thinking women are crazy makes things a lot easier for us”. Men tend to dismiss pretty much anything they don’t feel like explaining as “Women-Craziness”. Rather than wasting their time trying to rationalise what we do, they throw it all out the window and add it to the long list of “What our Crazy woman does”. “We don’t really think all women are insane, we just say it so we can be done thinking about their antics and move on”.

 So there you have it! 10 top secrets you never knew about men. Feel free to leave your comments. We would love to see how many guys agree with this, or how many feel differently.

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